Listen more than you plan
Notice what they emphasize—their tone, pauses, and the details they return to. You do not need to fill every second with your own story.
Light topics are fine: music, food, hobbies, or something small that happened today.
Take turns and respect pace
Ask, then let them finish. If you tend to talk over people, count a beat after they stop before you reply.
Match energy when you can: a calm voice for a calm chat, a bit more animation if they are enthusiastic—without mimicking or mocking.
End clearly and kindly
When you are ready to go, say so plainly: “I need to head off—nice talking with you.” You do not owe a long explanation.
If the tone turns rude or pressuring, stop engaging and use skip, block, or report tools available in the product, as described in the Terms and Community Guidelines.
FAQ
Is one-on-one video more private than a group chat?
It is a smaller audience, but another person may still record or screenshot. Share only what you are comfortable showing a stranger.
What if I do not know how to exit?
Use the in-product leave or skip controls rather than closing the browser without a word when possible—it is clearer for both sides.
Choose your next step
Open the video matching page when you're ready, or explore the online list first.